Husbands, Your wife must be your lover, your intimate friend, your best adviser and strongest counsellor if you must remain successful in life.

Wives, your husband needs you to create a culture of calmness and an atmosphere of peace, a place where he can rest from the world’s craziness.

Every spouse must protect their marriage from outside attacks. When others attack and insult your spouse openly or secretly, rebuke them. If you join them in tearing your spouse down, it means, your spouse will never be regarded by others.

Husbands, When you wife speaks, look at her. Eye contact says you’re valuable. She needs to know you love her but if you don’t show her, it means nothing. Help your wife. Do so without being asked. Her respect for you will increase exponentially.

What a man needs most is respect and submission from the wife.

Don’t entertain gossipers in your home. They will destroy your marriage.

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”