Children at the end of the day look like their parents. Therefore, Husband and wife whenever you quarrel and fight, your children take note of it. One day, they will ask whether you are genuinely born-again. On the other hand, you must also realize that whatever your marriage looks like could be duplicated in their homes in the future. Will you want your children to do what you are doing now?
When you understand your husband or wife, less friction is bound to occur in your marriage. With good understanding of her husband, a woman can communicate things she has observed that he does which may not be profitable. Ask God to grant you understanding. Proverbs 24:3
Husbands, the best Personal Assistant (PA) you have is your wife. If you want your marriage to be devoid of intruders, listen to her. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Marriage is meant for agreement, not disagreement. Until husband and wife are in agreement, family dominion will be impossible. I suspend every demonic oppression in your marriage.
When there is no happiness in a home, the family members are prone to all sorts of sicknesses and disease. Proverbs 17:22. Man, which do you choose: To stay happy and make every member of your family happy, thereby staying away from hospital bills, or to continue spending your money and resources on drugs and medical bills? If you sow excitement into the atmosphere in your home, you will reap joyful family members.
Spouse, Appreciate the good in your spouse and family members, and then the bad will depreciate. But if your habit is to recount the bad, then expect loads of trouble in your marriage.
Adapt to your spouse: Like what your spouse likes. Know his/her tastes and flow along with him/her and, you will experience happiness.
Give no place to the spirit of unforgiveness: If you don’t forgive, you will not be forgiven. If you don’t make others happy, you also will not be happy. If your wife or husband offends, correct immediately in love, and forgive. Also, forget the offence and you will experience happiness.
Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:
“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”