Marriage 408

Discouragement should not be found in the dictionary of a believer. A discouraged person is helpless. A discouraged husband will make life unbearable for his wife. A discouraged wife too will make life hell on earth for her husband.
Discouragement is a very useful tool in the hands of the devil and it is a commodity that he sells at the most expensive rate to those who want it. It is his greatest weapon against Christians

Single, the first thing to do when searching for your missing rib is to have a desire. You don’t search without a desire. Don’t just pretend not to need a partner or put in your social media profile, you are engaged; you are living a lie by doing that and when you are actually in need because marriage is honourable. It also stops the potential spouse from trusting you or scares them away.

Your thinking defines your living! Be aware that marital success as well as Marriage breakdown starts in the mind. Whether we like it or not, we are products of our thoughts. There are spouses because of their past or what had happened to their family thinks everything negative concerning the other. When such happens you will hear them say “I said it” without knowing that they are the architect of such happenings by their thoughts.

Singles, after you have prayed for your destiny spouse, you need to relax your mind and apply the concept of “deep sleep” which teaches that you refuse to be anxious about that situation. The concept of deep sleep connotes no anxiety, no worry and absolute rest. Then, you must make yourself fit to be searched for. Make yourself fit to be found. Don’t just look for the “right” person, be a “right” person yourself. Choose positive destiny-molding thoughts over ordinary sinful thoughts, and you are on your way up. I see you get there.

A merry heart provokes an attitude that makes you irresistible. This mood when practise at home makes every impossible to be possible. You cannot be joyful without reflecting it in your comportment. No matter what is happening in your home, be joyful. The mood will also kill all your enemies by slow motion.

As far as God is concerned, no matter the situation in your family, you are a creature of great worth. God is mindful of you, so walk tall! Lift up your head and straighten your shoulders! Let your walk reflect strength, health, honour, dignity and a sense of purpose. As you do, you are surely going to make a difference.

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”