Marriage 208

A man that loves his wife, therefore, does not wait for his wife to be perfect before he loves her. And whenever your wife is going wrong, call her back to order with love. When you call your wife a virtuous woman, she will long to live up to that title. Woman, when you call your husband a great and loving husband, you will see him work harder to care for you and the children.

God gave man the responsibility to love his wife and his family members. Wherever love is present, it can be seen, read, heard and felt. You can’t hide love. Love commands evidence and it is only an idiot that follows the man without evidence. If you want to be in control of your home, you need to use the weapon of love. Ask yourself, “Do I really love my wife and family?” Remember, where there is love, selfishness does not exist!

When a child is tender, the child will be restless and can give you lots of trouble but please in your anger don’t put a curse on that child. It takes only wisdom from God to bring out the best in your children. Only God can help you de-code what your child is and will become.

A healthy child is bound to be a stubborn child. Don’t say to your child, God will punish you’ Let me add, when your child is punished, you are also punished. The worst in life is to have no child that is successful because in your old age, you will have no one to take care of you.

Husbands, wherever love is, there will be nothing like beating or boxing. That is an abuse of the privilege of being the head and leader of your family. Don’t be a taskmaster or a lion causing everybody to hide behind the chairs and under the tables as soon as they hear your voice from afar. You don’t have to scare members of your family just to prove that you have them under control

A touch communicates warmth. When a husband, for instance, puts his arms around his wife, it brings warmth that neither money nor words can produce. Husband and wife, study to be romantic. A little act of love from your spouse can bring you good health and you may never need a medication? There’s no spouse who hates to be loved.

God so loved the world that He gave His son! If you claim to love your spouse, it must find expression in giving. If you ‘so love’ you will ‘so give”

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”