Wives, nothing disarms a man like a humble wife. You can use Love, right approach and right attitude to make your husband do anything you desire but a woman who shows off how more intelligent she is than her husband will soon have high blood pressure as her companion.

There is a love of test in every marriage, how you handle it can either make your marriage strong or the love in your marriage will start leaking. It is your duties as husband and wife alone to make your marriage to work. The more you allow intruders, the more the confusion.

Many of us have created a monster out of our marriage, there is no new creation. We have turned our life and marriage to methodical synthesis, there is nothing new. Inject new ideas, holiday packages, weekend hang out, Monthly surprises to your partners.

Family is meant for celebration. Therefore, all of you with the gift of frowning in your home must give your frown a break, because it is demonic captivity. Smile is contagious and it is you saying to satan in front of your family, no matter what satan does to frustrate my marriage, he who is in me is greater. It is you saying, it is not over until it is over, and if satan pushes you down ten times you shall bounce back ten times. Smile is you saying let nobody count me out in this marriage for I will not quit I will not give up and I will not surrender. Smile and laughter triggers the right side of the brain, which helps release creativity so we can make better decisions in your marriage. Spouse, don’t come back from work with the intention to start third world war.

Most people come into their marriage with past guilt past mistakes and still hold to it. You must allow your past mistakes, disappointment and past discouragement to pass away or you will become the past. You must allow fresh air, fresh thinking, fresh trust, fresh love to come into your marriage daily.

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

 By Dr. C.I