Marriage 205

God took from the man and made a woman and presented her to the man. Whatever was strong enough to cause God to leave His throne in Heaven must be very important. Don’t marry today and break up tomorrow. Look at the woman God has given you and love her.

Beware of how you present bad news to your spouse. Many people have sent their spouse to an early grave because of lack of wisdom, while some spouse are living by only God’s mercies but battered by harsh words used on them by their husband or wife.

If you are addicted to anger in your marriage, it is because you are not addicted to Praise and Appreciation. Learn to worship God at all times in and with songs, it will release your spirit to control your thoughts

Wives, if God has prospered your husband siblings, don’t badmouth them. Thank God every day for them and let it be a point of contact for God to visit your immediate family.  When your home becomes the haven of hatred, you chase away goodness and family blessings.

The words of your mouth can lead to satisfaction and all round family increase, if they are right words. Therefore, if you want a stable home you must watch what you say, where you say it and to whom you say it. You must tame your tongue to speak only when it is necessary. Parents who desire a good family must ensure that no corrupt words proceed out of their mouths. Careless words, abuse, cursing your children must never be uttered, because such words have negative effects.  Whatever good you desire to see in your family, speak it into today and always into existence.

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”