Wisdom is the building material for every family. No family will rise above the wisdom in that home. One of the laws of marriage states that what you put in is what you take out. For example, how do you want God to answer your prayers by keeping the spouse you snatched from another person? God cannot make mistake, you have a destiny spouse. Every Marriage requires regular maintenance. You might be tempted to think that once you are married, the work is over. Actually, the work is just beginning. Learn to spend time with your spouse. You need to create time for fun. You can go out, stroll, play games together, etc. But all of life’s demands should not be at the expense of spending quality time together. You must make yourself available to your spouse, whenever he or she needs you. No matter how choked up you are in activities, you must create room for your spouse by making yourself available.

One of the reasons some marriages fail is due to lack of intimacy. You need to schedule outings, as if you were dating again. Do not allow months to pass without spending at least several hours together on a date. When you begin to do this, you will become intimate with your spouse. Spouse no matter the urgency of leaving the house, always give your spouse a goodbye hug and kiss, before leaving in the morning. Husbands, treat your wife like the queen you want her to be. Wives, build up your husband’s ego; honour and respect him. Singles, you must ensure that you obtain parental blessings. If your Parents object to your marriage, your prayer, attitude and manner of approach which is wisdom can do wonders. When God is involved no one will stop your marriage. Don’t relocate to the man’s house without performing your marriage rites, it shows you don’t have regards to your parents or the one that took care of you.

Finally, to fulfil God’s purpose for your marriage the first step is to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Number two: To be a keeper and a solution provider requires the grace of God and to access that grace, you must be born again. If you want to be born again you need to say this prayer:

“Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today as a sinner. Forgive me of my Sins. I believe You died and rose on the third day for my sins. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”  “Behold, the former things have come to pass, Now I declare new things; Before they spring forth I proclaim them to you” Isaiah 42:9. Your long awaited miracle shall be revisited and be delivered to you