Marriage 112

Words are powerful and Creative. Therefore, saying, “I love you” over and over again spices up your marriage. What you believe in your heart, you need to say with your mouth. No one can read minds, and until thoughts are voiced out, they remain private.

Every marriage needs a daily dose of these three important words. “I love you”. Say the words before leaving for work and when you come home. Say, “I love you” before hanging up the phone or after a particularly inspiring conversation.

Words create the atmosphere of a sweet home relationship. Express to your mate the nice qualities you like in him or her. There must be a continued renewal of your love towards your spouse.

Lending a helping hand, being available, make a difference in relationships. Don’t be a selfish lover.

Expectation, as often said, is the mother of manifestation. Therefore, what do you expect your home to be? Success or failure; stressful or stress-free; full of troubles or peace? Therefore, accept responsibilities and stop wishing.

Woman! God has placed the building of the home into your hands. That is why the Bible says: Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands (Proverbs 14:1).

When a man understands the nature of his wife and works according to that understanding, problems are less likely to arise in that home. You must realise that she is a wife, mother and homemaker all at once, and these place demands on her. Therefore, be considerate towards her and be available to minister to her needs. Don’t wait for her to play her part first; live by example.