Marriage 106

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, and that will make you better while you make him better. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married.
Begin this weekend for married couples, to write love letters addressed to your spouse and put it in their suit or shoes or handbag with a promise that it will not be open until they get to work.

No man can fight a quiet wife unless the man is mental. Avoid mutual aggressiveness in marriage

The greatest enemy of marriage is selfishness”

When you start the habit of borrowing at the kick-off of your marriage, you are going to live a life of tension, unhappiness, depression and worry. And worry is you in a dark room developing negatives

Ask God to grant you supernatural supply

If you have used your wide mouth against your husband, write him a love letter telling him, that you may be stubborn but you know you have what it takes to make him the man of destiny and the husband others will envy. Apologise and display your CV for his consent and admiration

When it seems as if your husband no longer loves you, plant a seed faith offering into his life

Write him saying ‘Darling, I know we quarrelled and we disagreed but you are my first love and my last love. Nobody has ever loved me like you. If this state has a Governor, you are my Governor, if Nigeria has a President, you are my President. I celebrate you in my heart everyday. And I am appointed by God to stand by you. Many women can run after you but none has the commission from God to stand by you like me. I will make sure you eat healthy food that you may live long for me

When a girl is too conscious of her beauty and her intelligence, she will become too dangerous for anybody to deal with. Therefore, when you are a pretty girl and you have no character, you are of no use.

Don’t insist on winning argument. The more you argue, the more you increase the tension of the house

I decree, Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honourable in the name of Jesus Christ.

15 thoughts

  1. As a help mate what do you do when you encourage your man in good dealing and he tells u the other side of the story.you later find out that he has another woman after married to you and you have five kids.he is only not being the bread winner again,not that he can but don’t want to (hidden agenda).

    1. The teachings here are antidotes to marital problems. There is a tendency that when children start coming, the love start depreciating. The wife starts focusing more on the kids rather than the husband that is feeble minded starts looking outside for comfort, from someone who has his time and listens to his emotions. Then he starts committing his wealth to the same woman. There is a remedy, there is hope. You can win him back. That is the core of the messages in this marriage tips. Number Two: it takes prayers to God to make such man turn their heart back to you. Skip your dinner for some days and ask God to make your family loveable again. #drCI

  2. TANX SO MUCH 4 THESE COUNSELS.SIR, PLS I ASKD A QUESTION B4 BT DIDNT GET AN ANS. DO I CONTINUE INVESTING IN MY HUSBAND’S BIZ WEN HE DOESN’T TAKE CARE OF D FAMILY BUT SHARES THE GAINS WITH D MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY? HE ALSO HIDES EVERYTHING 4M ME.

    1. Your responsibility is to be a help mate no matter the condition and God is a rewarder of them that diligently trust and obey God. Leave the rest for God to fight for you. He may not openly appreciate you which is wrong but inside him, he knows you are sent by God to cover his shame. Time will open his eyes to recognise your input. Keep doing what you are doing. You are blessed

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